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I wouldn't kiss him when I was in the "popular crowd", but now I wish I had!

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Question - (24 June 2005) 1 Answers - (Newest, 3 July 2005)
A , *ox?xox writes:

There is a good friend of mine who I have known for about four years, we used to sit by each other in a class, and would often flirt with each other. i really liked him, but to be honest i was worried about what my friends would think, because i was in the *popular crowd* and he wasn't.

he told me that he had feelings for me one night when i saw him out and asked me to kiss him, i so wanted to, but couldn't because my friends were there.

Since then i have moved on from my old *friends* and for the last year i have been hanging out with the same group that this lad is in.

we have become extremely close, and have had numerous conversations with each other about our feelings for one another, but have never had the chance to get close as we have been tied up in different difficulties and relashionships.

now he is with another girl and i can't seem to get him out of my head! him and her make such a good couple and i think he loves her, but now and again he looks at me in a way that suggest he still likes me, or will gently brush his hand along my back when he walks past me.

i really want to get over him, but because we are so close as friends now my feelings for him wont go away.

is there anyway i can stop this... atleast until/if he comes out of this relationship with this girl, who also happens to be a close friend of mine.

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A reader, becky05 +, writes (3 July 2005):

Try and get out as much as possible with friends etc. Try to meet someone new and forget about him. Hes in a relationship now so you cant have him. if at some point in the future, you are both single again, ask him out and see what happens from there.

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