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writes:Hey i've never had a proper bf before, well not a serious one anyway i seriously like a lad. W ehave been friends for a while and part of me thinks he likes me to. The thing is though i'm not saying anything will happen but if he does feel the same i want to give it a ago(i'm not thinking of telling him btw) therse' just signs he likes me and his friends have accused me of liking him even though i've denyed it and i've never told anyone. I don't think i'd dare go out with him though because i'm afraid of getting hurt and because we have the same group of friends and everything i'd just be to afraid in case of what could happen. He's not the type to go hurting people but i do know he had one gf in the past and he dumped her because he never got to see her and it really got to him, she was never allowed out and her mum kept telling him he was ruining her education. I think he likes me though but i don't want to blow it because i'm afraid of getting hurt. please help! Reply to this Question
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reader, MCWnov.8,1991  +, writes (23 February 2008):
Don't feel that way don't be afraid to hurt his feelings do whats in your heart i need help also i broke up with this girl this year she told me she loved me the second day we went out i don't feel the same way so i broke up with her all my friends told me i should've said it to get sex but i ain't that way my friends call me gay for breaking up with her am i gay for doing that?
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reader, Kawika +, writes (23 February 2008):
 I dont think anyone wants to get hurt, but would it be something you would regret doing? How would you ever know if he is the right one for you unless you take that leap of faith? We all have our fears and worries on what might or might not happen, but that shouldn't prevent us from escaping our expressions and freedom, especially when it comes to romance. I think we all THINK to much and do to little. When it comes to romance, sometimes it is good to just let it free. Let it take its own course...on its own time. You never know where it will take you. It may be years before anything close to that will ever happen again. Never take "love" for granted. As quickly as it comes it will also fade...and it may never come back. Love should never come from our heads (what we think), but from our own hearts and soul (what we feel). Just my lowly opinion.
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reader, baybee-x-sparkii +, writes (23 February 2008):
 find out where u stand and take it from there. flirt a little making sure that he subtly nos u like him and see how it goes.
if u want email me
sparkii x
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