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writes:My boyfriend and I met a year ago. We went on a few dates and I realised I had fallen for him, but after a couple of weeks he told me he had decided to move to Italy (from Spain) for 6 months. We stayed in touch, and he came back after less than 2 months and we talked about our feelings for each other and decided we wanted to be together. We have been living together 8 months and are very happy, my problem is I have always wanted to marry and have children young (I´m 23, he is nearly 26), but he says he wants to live his life and have fun before even thinking about children, he´s not even sure if he MIGHT want them in the future!! What can I do? I don´t want to start a family now, but would like to in a couple of years. Is it too early for me to be worring about this??? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2007): Yeah i say its waay to early for you to worry about this,give him some time you never know he might just come around eventually
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reader, cd206  +, writes (12 May 2007):
 Yes and no..... I believe you do deserve to know where you stand about kids etc but you are still young. It might have been your idea all along that if you have kids you'd like to have them young but if your boyfriend had the same idea about having them when you're older who would be right? You have over 20 years of childbearing left in you, thats practically your whole life again. If you love your boyfriend and think him to be the one give him another year or so before bringing this up again.
CD
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