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writes: i am in a qaundry about what to do about a woman I am interested in where I go to the gym twice a week. I have been talkng to her about 6 times over a period of 2 months or so, and I can't work out whether or not she is available. I don't want to screw up like I normally do by asking her too soon to go out on a date, but on the other hand she will think I'm not man enough if I don't ask her soon. I don't see her every week, but have seen her 3 times in the last 3 weeks. I know where she works and her first name, so I thought of sending a Valentines Day card to her at work, hoping she will work out it came from me. Does anyone think this is the wrong move or does it sound like a good idea. Or am I just wasting my time. Am I better off just coming straight to the point the next time we talk to each other at the gym?Thanks for your help.shabba74
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2006): so what did you do, did you send her a valentines gift or not?
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (9 February 2006):
 Do not send the valentine to her work, how embarrasing this would be for her, especially if she is married or her bloke works with her.
You seem to feel there is an urgency to ask her out, why ?
My advice would be to engage her in conversation and do a little mild flirting if you are the type of bloke who feels comfortable doing this, if not maybe if the gym has a coffee bar ask her if she would like to join you.
Or you could get chatting and drop a question into the conversation like " does your husband not like the gym" something like this.
feint heart never won fair maiden!! go for it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2006): My honest advice: ask her out, and ask her soon. If you need an excuse like valentine's, that's ok - but do it because you like her, not because you feel like you have to use v-day as a device. just straight-out ask her on a date. good luck, i hope she says yes!
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