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30-35,
*oolchick99
writes:ive kissed plenty of boys, but sometimes i worry that im not really up to par! i dont know what to do with my tongue, should i move it in clockwise spirals or counterclockwise? should i flick? should i thrust it deep into his mouth? where do i put my hands? what do guys like that really gets them going? any tips or directions on technique would be greatly appreciated! thanks!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2008): I find it so funny that most girls at your age are focusing about this kind of trival stuff rather than school.
Well, if you want to be a great kisser, don't focus on it too much. Just go with what you feel better for YOU. When you're kissing don't consentrate if you're kissing good or bad, just be happy with the sensation you get when you kiss. Also make sure that before you kiss that your lips are mosturized because most people don't like to kiss chapped lips.
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reader, centralbabe5678  +, writes (9 July 2008):
 tickle the back of there neck or put your hand on there face
to pull them in closer. with your tounge just be adventurous and dont hold back but dont choke them. as long as you dont go side to side with your tounge is doesn't really matter. make it smooth and intimate. leave him wanting more.
that will do the trick :)
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reader, Tremor  +, writes (9 July 2008):
 It really depends on the guy. Different people like different things.
You seem to be focussing on your tongue a lot - kissing doesn't HAVE to involve tongue. Spare it, and it'll be better when you /do/ use it.
Where you put your hands depends on the situation. I've always found it easiest to just hug them and go from there.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2008): Except for too much slobber, good kissing does not have anything to do with technique...it is an emotional connection. When you are emotionally connected, you are not trying to kiss or be a good kisser. You are simply feeling him. You feel your mouth touch his and you feel your tongues touch. If you are more concerned with what to do than with simply feeling everything then you won't really come off as a good kisser. Really, just enjoy the moment and how it feels.
A tip though, Deep tonguing, while amazing at times, is only good on occasion and only if the feeling is completely mutual.
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