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writes: i just wanted 2 ask any girls out there that have had a guy or more in the past that had a gigantic dick, what happens in the future when u find someone u fall in love with that just has a 6 or 7 incher? does it mean that since u already had huge that the guy in your life now cant ever make u feel the same, meaning u cant get off or it just dont feel the same? am i screwed? is my girl lying about saying she doesnt want it to be massive and it works just fine? i just fig once u get used 2 big that the feeling down there cant ever b the same with antone else lol i feel like an idiot
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reader, lovetokissyou  +, writes (9 March 2010):
I think your over reacting, size has nothing to do with making your woman feel good. Its all in her mind and should be in yours . Woman need tenderness love and compassion, make her feel sexy ontop of the world and she wont even know you have a what u call small penis, the average size of a male penis is just under 6 inches to 6 to 7 is not small and did u know that the nerve endings in a woman vagina is only at the first few inches, after that its how you move and make her feel that she will be looking for, not size. Im sure you lady is quite happy with you just keep maker her feel like a Queen.
and as Emily said using your tongue is a great way to get her to were u want her to be .. and thats a very happy woman.. take care
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reader, Primo48 +, writes (8 March 2010):
Is your self esteem really that low? Don't wory about size or mass. If your GF satisified with your performance? If so then you have nothing to worry about. If not, TALK to each other. You want to lose a woman/GF? Don't communicate!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2010): a 6-7 in. penis works fine but to me it's not really a matter of length but width and girth and of course how you use it :P
your girlfriend could totally be telling the truth because everyone has different tastes and some girls really dont like the "big" ones...
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reader, SanDiegoGuy +, writes (8 March 2010):
Girth is probably more important than length. If you have a pencil thickness, then you'll have less success stimulating the clitoris. Women I have been with are more admiring of my girth than length. And if you are 7 inches, then you are past average and in the "large" realm of penis size.
This chart will help anyone with questions about what women say is the ideal penis size:
http://hootchicootchi.files.wordpress.com/2008/06/chart.gif
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reader, Angzw  +, writes (7 March 2010):
The only thing that women don't like about small dicks is the lack of confidence that often accompanies it. Physically, most women couldn't care less. If you enjoy giving lots of oral and other sexy foreplay AND you have confidence then you have nothing to worry about. Most women can't stand guys who repeatedly ask them if their dick is big enough. Very off putting. Just learn to use it just the way she likes it and it will be fine.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (7 March 2010):
 Anything more than about 6 or 7 inches and we enter the extremely uncomfortable painful "cervix boxing" realm. Guys with huge dicks usually wind up acting like huge dicks too, at least in bed. Like what Emilyanswers said, they think because they have a big dick they don't have try as hard. Most women can't even orgasm from sex alone, the reason being, the insides of our vagina aren't that sensitive. We need to be able the stretch the thing over a baby, how are we supposed to do that if it's as sensitive as our other sex organs? So really, as long as it's not vienna sausage small (even if it is, it's workable) the ONLY thing that matters is that you can move in a way that hits our other sex organs (i.e. clitoris and sometimes G-spot) during sex. We don't feel a penis inside much, it just feels full and like that fullness is moving. We feel it on the outside and in the first 3 inches of our vagina. Anything over 5 inches and you're a perfectly good size for a woman. I don't know any women who drool over a huge one. Most go, oh goodness, that'll hurt, bring out the lube!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2010): emily is on the money.you're an idiot.It's not what you got,but how you use it.You've prob had pussy that was tighter than others,but not but not enjoyed then as much as some of the looser pussy you've had.It's not what you have but how you use it.6 - 6 1/2 is average so if you can master foreplay and and learn to eat pussy well,you shouldn't have any problems..DUMBASS.
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reader, janniepeg +, writes (7 March 2010):
 Your girl is not lying. I kind of like it when guys feel they are not that big so that had to work harder to please us. Most of times it's true. I saw in porn movies that guys with big cocks are so proud they let the women do all the work, and can't even get in all the way. Disappointing to watch. 6 or 7 inches is the perfect size.
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reader, veronika  +, writes (7 March 2010):
 "Just" a 6 or 7 incher? Ha, that's above average in terms of size.Generally, really big penises can hurt. I personally don't care much for size, unless they are very small, but most men aren't very small. Most fall into the 5 inch range. Which, I feel, *should* be perfectly satisfactory for most women. I must admit, though, bigger penises do tend to look more "attractive" in my opinion, but that's about it. It's all about how he uses it mostly ;)
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2010): You have asked a question that is very important to you and I want to take the time to give you a very frank answer. I studied Biology in college and learned about natrual selection and genetics. Think about this large penis size is a dominant gene. If women were only attracted to men with large penises they would only have sex with men with large penises and have babys with men that have large penises. The babys born would have large penises(as they got older of course). The gene would even be passed down to female children because everyone regardless of gender carries every fetus begins as a female. It's only after the fetus develops more that hormones develop female genitals to male. The clitoris is the female counterpart to the penis.
Here is the really good news. The average woman is only five inches deep. The average vagina can accomodate a penis that is 9 inches long though, but so freaking what? Women don't want to have sex with someone when they feel like they are being punched in the stomache.
Technique is what is important to a woman. Confidence is also very very important. My sister confided in me that her husband is always asking her for reassurance about the size of his penis. She keeps telling him that his size is just fine. It is a big turn off to women when you don't have confidence. Think about it like this. Isn't it a big turn off to you when a woman is always complaining out how big her butt is or how small her breasts are? It's the same thing for women.
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reader, bharat mehta  +, writes (7 March 2010):
 'Emilysanswers', is perfect, that represent absolute truth. Every details of the answer is absolute truth. Even it is said by many many sexologist, and many wise female also. The thing wonder me is only, why human mind became so cripple? The size, the color...in short, measurable details of the matter [here male's organ], is important as long as one has to form the correct concept, once it [concept' is correctly and really formed, then mind's work begin to direct the function of the matter. Up to certain historical period of time, female do not even care to look at male's organ, and quite able to enjoy the heaven of sex. Sex, is predominantly mind's work, and not matter.
So, what is required to cultivate is not the size and shape of the body, but function of the mind.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (7 March 2010):
You are an idiot.
I had an ex who was huge. He was absolutely CRAP in bed. I thought size just meant I'd orgasm by looking at it and therefore he put in zero effort and foreplay was just a means for him to get sex, not to please me.
The only people who are impressed by huge penises are other men.
We women want a guy who knows what to do with it and don't think it's the only thing you can use to make us happy.
She's probably just as happy with your tongue as any other thing you may use.
It really is technique that impresses us. A woman's most sexual organ is her brain. Make her feel sexy and she'll never ever leave.
Good Luck!! xx
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