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female
age
51-59,
*orothea
writes:I have recently been over to Germany where my relatives live. Myself and my cousin have always been attracted to each other and this time I was staying at his place. On this visit we made love for the first time ever. We email and telephone regularly now that I am back in my country. I am 40 and he is 42. I am in a long term relationship but he is still single. I know its terribly wrong what I have done but the attraction between us is so strong its unstoppable. We have both pledged never to tell anyone about this. He is always saying things like 'youre such a sweet girl' and 'youre a good girl'. I wonder whether this situation has the potential to become terribly messy, or will it be ok? Am I a very bad person for doing this?
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (1 July 2010):
 You cheated, so in that respect I think you know what you did was wrong. You don't need to ask us. If the attraction between you two has always been strong and unstoppable, I wonder why you have never had a relationship? Maybe something to think about.
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