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30-35,
anonymous
writes:my boyfriend told me last night that he cheated on me 3 times with 3 different guys. like any other boyfriend, I sorta freaked out. But an hour later, it didnt really phase me at all. Before I got with him, I knew he had a history of cheating with other partners, and although i hesitated getting into a relationship with him, i did. its been one year and a few months since we got together, and we, i guess you can say are in love. we moved in together and everything is going well. except for the fact that he is always talking to other people in sexual manners. I am annoyed sometimes, but understand thats how he is. I just want to know, is it normal that I am not really angry that he cheats on me? i know its weird, but i guess "normal" people would say that I should be pissed at him. but for some reason, I'm not. I love the guy, and i know he loves me. We show it everyday to each other. but i dont know if its normal that I dont care too much whenever he does cheat? (i myself never have cheated on him nor do i ever plan to cheat, and choose not to.)
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reader, YouWish +, writes (24 April 2010):
 This guy will never change. He was a cheater before he met you, and he'll be one after you come to your senses and break up with him.
Here's one thing to get upset about: Cheating puts the non-cheating partner at grave risk, especially if it's serial cheating and one-night stands. How would you feel if his cheating brought you herpes or HIV???
Not cool at all. You are not invincible, and neither is he.
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (24 April 2010):
 I know you love him, but there is no excues for his behavioiur and you shouldn't tolerate it.
I don't want to hurt you, and I'm not saying these things to be hurtful but because I feel like you deserve better. This guy sucks, and you should get rid of him. You've been faithful and you deserve a guy that will be faithful to you. Obviously you're faithful, there are bound to be OTHER guys who are just as faithful as you. Life is so short and if you spend your life with this guy you'll look bafck and regret it and wonder what would have happened if you'd left him.
Leave him... he doesn't deserve you. You deserve love with someone faithful.
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