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writes:soo here goes....well ive seen this guy around my local village he doesnt know me i dont know him but i know where he hangs out with his group of friends and i do recognize him as he has very goood looks! anway im not confident at all and his friends seem intimidating...probz because i dont know any of them. anyway how can i turn this "gorgeous" guy from a total stranger into a "boyfriend" and get his friends to like me too, i feel i cant approach him as i dont know him and im not confident at all..... please help its doing my head in!!! x Reply to this Question
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reader, xsouldeath  +, writes (23 September 2008):
Okay, I am a guy. I would love for a girl who is interested to approach me. Of course there is a chance that I would turn down a girl mainly if-she isn't wearing nice tight clothes-she doesn't wear anything sexy. Which gives Me an idea that sex is just something we would do to make kids when she or me wants.. Which is pretty pathetic.-she isn't Asian/latina .. Well some exceptions... But I'm the pickiest guy ever seeing as I have an interesting and huge collection of certain .. Website passwords .. LolSo basically.... "Hi, I've seen you around, howz your day going?""Do you have the time?" (guy tells you the time) ...You say A) Oh, that's cool so what's upB) No No I meant the time to have a chat...
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reader, Meby11  +, writes (5 August 2008):
 Go TOTALLY CLICHE on him, jus tbe polite, and as you walk by him nod and say hi sweetly, or drop your stuff, and if he ignores you then he is retarded and has no manners and isnt worth it. But then you can talk and say your name and introduce yourself. Dont drop a whole binder. 2 items will do, one for you to grab and one for him. 3
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reader, lexilou +, writes (5 August 2008):
 Start by smiling at him when you see him. Gradually build this up to saying hi and take it from there. If he blanks you completely then just move on. If he returns your smile and hi's then build up to talking to him. If its a small village you will get plenty of chances to bump into him and will soon pick up on whether or not he is a nice guy and interested or a waste of time x
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2008):
Since you say you know where he hangs out, go do the same things he does. Ex: bowling, clubbing...bump into him naturally and start a conversation with a smile making it less obvious...as if you would talk in the same way with anyone else in his place. Try to keep it light with a touch of humor so that it attracts him. Then if you see that he's interested, build a conversation and then take it from there.
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reader, LouLee +, writes (4 August 2008):
 Wow, hate to crash your hopes but this seems like a really difficult situation..
but don't let this stop you. Lets see.
do you have any friends that could know ANY of his friends or him even?
I have no idea how you're going to go about this if you're not confident.. hmm, i havent really helped lol
sorry?! =(
xxxxxx
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reader, LouLee +, writes (4 August 2008):
Wow, hate to crash your hopes but this seems like a really difficult situation..
but don't let this stop you. Lets see.
do you have any friends that could know ANY of his friends or him even?
I have no idea how you're going to go about this if you're not confident.. hmm, i havent really helped lol
sorry?! =(
xxxxxx
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