A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:These days, i am really into watching pornographic pictures,and usually get aroused at the sight of big erect cocks. Although i love to look at them,i have never wanted to have sex, not before i get married anyway.Though i always feel dirty after watching those pictures, i still want to know if such act is that bad and if it is, how do i stop it cos i'm really into doing it.
View related questions:
porn Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2011): this may be a phase you are going through. It might even indicate that you currently feel sexually frustrated, and you are using it as an outlet to ease your sexual frustration.You should eventually get bored with it. Or not need it when you do start to feel more sexually satisfied.You don't need to label yourself as dirty nor any other negative label. Believe that you hve a need and this appears as a less than satisfactory substitute for your own physical needs.You may have a high sex drive.So turn off the DVD player and try a variation and explore masturbation and develop some fantasy scenarios in your head as you explore how images in your mind and words of encouragement to yourself and whatever else can bring you to a satisfactory orgasm.Very soon you will know exactly what moves satisfy you most.Masturbation is not the same as sex with a real life partner. The sensations are different. Though you have total control at all times.Later you will discover that sex with your husband is even better.Porn comes a very poor third to the suggestions above.Women have been doing it for themselves for thousands of years when their man is unavailable. .
|
