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writes: I had a relationship with a man for 3 years, ended very badly, over the phone. I was in love with him, for the wrong reasons, and could never really be myself. Since our break up 3 years ago, I met a really great guy, but we had a very casual relationship really for over a year. He wanted to get more serious with me, but I could never give myself to him, just wasn't ready. I felt my heart was closed, but I loved being with him. He now has a new girlfriend, and I still continue meeting him, thought I'd be able to talk about his new rel, but it really hurts, and I've had endless nights sleep over it. I hate knowing he's with her. I have no interest in meeting anyone else, just one night stands, and having being thinking about him soo much. Should I tell him how I feel? Am I in love with him? or should I just let him go?
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reader, becky05 +, writes (20 July 2005):
Im afraid you have missed your chance with this man. You were not ready for a relationship when he was single, now, he is attatched so I believe that you should let him move on with his life and you move on with yours.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2005): Listen up..don't you dare tell him. You never, ever interfere with another woman's man! You had your chance and you didn't take it...why would you even consider doing such a thing. I think that is self-serving and very petty of you. Live with your choices, lady and leave the two of them alone. Go find someone else and do not ever play around with people's lives and feelings like you are suggesting. You ask if you love him?? Obviously not-because you are prepared to disrupt his happy life with his new g/f. Love is not selfishness..love is givingness and true caring. All you are thinking about is your needs...not his.
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