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writes: Me and this other girl have been friends for a while- well i thought we were. The thing is that we hang round in a small sorta group at school- and she invited all these others to her party thing but not me. I was a bit upset as first and told my closest friends, but they made a big deal out of it, like i was really angry, and they told everyone. Now the other people in this group say they're finding it arkward around me and this other person. I've already got over it- but they said to one of my friends that I was being horrible to this girl behind her back- and i should just tell her how I feel angry. But i don't! They really annoyed with me but I haven't done anything wrong, have I? Should i just pretend i'm angry and tell the girl to 'clear the air'? It seems pointless! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2006): Put whoever is lying about you right, but concentrate more on the people in your group that do treat you with respect. It is perfectly normal to only have 1, or 2 friends in a group. The rest, label them as acquintances and don't bother too much about them.
More generally speaking, children, and teenagers can be really downright nasty and evil. I think back to my school days and I can't help but think Phewww - glad that's over.
You are obviously more mature than this group, so do you bit to make things right, stand up for yourself if you can, but more importantly stick with your friends and ignore silly immature gossip. Once you leave school, you'll never have to see any of those stupid people again!
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reader, ×KiTTy× +, writes (15 June 2006):
No , dont pretend to be angry tell them the truth.tell them that ur not angry and you really dont care.
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