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writes: i met this wonderful boy about 2 weeks back.. at first i didnt know what to do, but he was quick wit, fun and charming. i really liked him and coz i was mending a brokenheart i didnt want to go out with him despite him asking me out almost everyday... then suddenly out of nowhere came another girl, who he says is mad about him and i think his approach towards me is changing... i want him desperately now but i dont want him to see me as too needy coz it might drive him away, justtell me is it worth waiting for or should i just left him off the hook for this beautiful mysterious girl... also tell me how i can win him back, fighting secretly with this girlits really urgent, coz time is running out now... Reply to this Question
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reader, stina  +, writes (13 September 2006):
 Hi Girl,
Let me start out first by asking you a question: Are you sure that you really like him, or do you just want him because now he might become unavailable? Seriously think about that.
Now, if you really do want him and he is not in a relationship with this girl yet, just keep flirting with him, going out, having fun, etc. Your relationship with him will possibly turn into something more than just a friendship.
But, there is also the possibility that since he is not with either of you, he can date the other girl, as well. As long as he is truthful, there is nothing wrong with this. And there is also the possibility that he will choose this other girl over you. I know that's a hard thing to have to face, but it could turn out to be reality. Just be prepared for that.
If he is already in an exclusive relationship with this girl, then I agree with Ponungalungb, it's time to let him go. You don't want to be seen as the girl who broke them up do you? And you don't want to make him cheat on her, because what would that possibly say about him? Would you want to be with someone who could cheat, especially within such a short amount of time being with someone? Lots of questions, I know. But you really have to think about these sorts of things when dealing with such a delicate situation.
Just be yourself and see what happens; it's the only thing you can do at this point. But if he's already taken, then it's time to find someone else. Take care.
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reader, Ponungalungb +, writes (13 September 2006):
 You had your chance and you blew it. Now, sit back and relax and stay out of the picture.
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