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writes:I got dumped today by my bf of 3 months as his ex came home from travelling today and he wants to get back with her. She was away for 6 months and I did have suspisions that he still loved her but he assured me he would never get back with her. I cant believe he's done this to me. I feel very hurt, used and humiliated and I cant stop crying. I know I wasnt with him for long but I really fell for him. He even met my parents and I met his. I done so much for him too, now I just feel like an idiot. The thing that upsets me the most is that his ex was awful to him and cheated on him and I did everything he wanted. Im dreading seeing them together. What can I do.
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reader, Fairy_Lu +, writes (24 September 2007):
 He dumped you for an ex who treated him bad and he is willing to give her another go and not stay with you a loyal loving girlfriend? Well if thats the way he is your 100% better off without him, go find someone who cares for you and doesnt want a horrible ex back
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reader, honkifuluvnicole  +, writes (24 September 2007):
 Obviously this guy is a total jerk and you can do a million times better. Of course it is going to be hard to see them together, but you just need to keep in your head that you deserve better. Much better. If you were there for him, and treated him with respect, then he is blind towards feelings. You should stay strong, dont let him see your sadness, though it will be hard at first. You will find someone that will love and adore you and never leave you for anyone else, I assure you that.
Keep your head up.
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reader, kenny +, writes (23 September 2007):
 Well i don't think this guy was worth it and you are probably better of without him anyway. I know it does not feel like it now things will get better, time is the healer of all things. Pick yourself up, dust yourself down and move on. I reckon you can do alot better than this guy, and that you deserve better. If you see them out together then hold your head high and walk with a smile, and show you are getting on with your life. Soon you will meet a real nice guy that treats you well, probably when you least expect it.
All the best and good luck x
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