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writes:Hi, guys, I've got a problem. In Feburary, I had a brief fling with a guy that I've known for a long time. We still talk occasionally, and he flirts, even though he has a girlfriend now. I seem nto have developed deeper feelings for him than he has for me, as all he ever wants to talk about is sex. It would be just like me to fall for this sort of guy, and I'm trying my hardest to stop it because another guy that I've liked for a while has finally started to show some intrest. How do I let go of my feelings for him and concentrate on this other guy, who would be much healthier for me? :/ Any help would be appreciated.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI appreciate the input, but I've known this guy literally my WHOLE life. I can't just stop talking to him. I mean, we've been friends since we were in diapers...I can't just throw that away.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2010): I have gone through the same thing. You need to stop talking to him in order to get over him quickly. Just consider him out of your life. That way, you won't worry about when the next time he'll contact you will be. Just consider each time you talk your last time. It should be much easier since you have another person you can talk to. If you feel like talking to your old friend, say something to your new friend instead. Good Luck!
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