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I was her rebound, will she ever realize how much I cared for her?

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Question - (4 March 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 7 March 2011)
A male Singapore age 30-35, anonymous writes:

She is in a relationship with her bf for 5 years now, but it was not easy for her. Went through many break ups but patched back with him, got emotionally hurt, he slapped her once, cried a lot and her bf is possessive too. For a year, she had feelings for me and liked me. She shared all her problems with me. She knew I really cared and was affectionate toward her and we had many things in common. She felt happy and comfortable talking to me. She told me she has feelings for me but was confused. Suddenly, she doesn't want to talk to me because her bf didn't like it. I know I was a rebound. It has been 5 months we last talked and she still has problems with her bf., but will she realize how much I cared?

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A female reader, GeeGee255 United States +, writes (7 March 2011):

GeeGee255 agony auntShe already knows how much you care for her. But for whatever reason she chose to stay with her boyfriend rather than start over with you.

Which to you probably seems like a stupid thing to do. Maybe it was, only time will tell. In the meantime you have to let go and move on with your life. You can't keep being her backup guy anymore.

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