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*ebralove
writes:So I have dated this guy for about a month and hade to break up with him because it was just not going to work out. But he has left me feeling realy bad about myself.See the first weeks I started to get to know him he realy seemed nice and he tolled me all about his past and let me in verry easily. His parents died in a car accident when he was 11 years old. He even brought me home to his adoptive parents who i liked emidialty and so did they. I felt like this could be something good you know? But then the two last week I he started to treat me badly and have all these mood swings, it was horrible so I left him. I then found out he had been seeing other girls while being with me. So my question is, why did he feel the need to do this to someone who was good to him. I'm tired of having guys take a good girl and try to mess them up. There are lots of other girls who would be ok with friends with benefits (not that I have never hade one, I'm just at a point in my life where I am ready to be in a relationship). Thanks.
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reader, zebralove +, writes (25 September 2010):
zebralove is verified as being by the original poster of the question Mmm Thanks you guys this helps. :)
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reader, KingOfThron +, writes (25 September 2010):
 Hey!
I wouldn't feel bad about yoru self if you truly felt you where doing everything right and nothing wrong to hurt him in anyway, and by the way he seem's he's not reaady for just one person and dont want to settle for one =[ its a bad habit to get into becuase it can become a bigger promlem for him later on.
Dont let this bug you it was a guy that you knew a month not for years =] you'll get over him and find some one new, dont be willing to jump into something so fast next time though, get a feel for some one.
I know its hard to Find some one good, its not only girls that get tired of getting hurt, just take things slow grow a friend network and you'll find some one worth the time you'r willing to put in to them =]
Hope this helped if you Have any more Questing Feel free to ask =]
Good Luck.//
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reader, frostii  +, writes (25 September 2010):
I am a guy so I know from self-experience. However, I myself am in a solid relationship (a year and a half) and me and my girlfriend have discussed this many times about all the guys out in the world. I will be upfront with you, the majority of guys are terrible relationship wise (my girlfriend tells me I am not one of those guys) and I personally don't think I am one of those guys either. There is just some guys you can't shake and its really hard to find that right guy that suits you best. I wouldn't worry too much about it. He just trash if he did that to you and apparently he doesn't deserve someone like you because you would have never thought of doing that to him. Your time will come, one day that guy will come to you and you will just be able to say to yourself "That's the guy." When that day will come no one knows, but there is someone out there for everyone and you will know if that person is truly right for you is when that one person will step into your life and change you completely. I hope this helped and good luck in life. It can be a drag sometimes...
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2010): You're asking yourself too many questions : he acted in some way. That way is not something you want to live way. Point. Just forget about the story, remember the good points, learn from the bad ones, and that's it.
Now you know that guys may be changing, and that they may not be honest. Nothing really new, and girls are the same.
So do not feel guilty, except if you consider you acted the wrong way. No need to break your nerves with a one-month story :)
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reader, Black diamond20 +, writes (25 September 2010):
he probably wanted to get you out of the way to go out with someone else .or maybe hes been having flash backs of his parents and was so angered by them not being here on earth with him he probably was just a bad time. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2010): You're asking yourself too many questions : he acted in some way. That way is not something you want to live way. Point. Just forget about the story, remember the good points, learn from the bad ones, and that's it.
Now you know that guys may be changing, and that they may not be honest. Nothing really new, and girls are the same.
So do not feel guilty, except if you consider you acted the wrong way. No need to break your nerves with a one-month story :)
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