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writes:I am a student away from home at uni and have been seeing a girl for about 7 months who is also away from her home and at uni. Recently tho she told me that she just wants to be friends, which I found out was due to feelings she still had towards her ex. Her ex broke up with her soon after leaving for uni after the assumption that she was seeing other people and at the time was un-true. She was with him for a few years. Days after the text I had from her I bumped into her at a party and I spoke to her about things. I found out that She still really likes me. She said she likes me the same as her ex, but had to text me saying what she said because she thought it was unfair to carry things on with me. Am going for a drink with her soon to discuss things. I really don't think that I can be friends with her though. I'm also so confused with what she been saying about her feelings for me. I was under the assumption that I was just a rebound from her break up. I think she does want to carry on seeing me, but something about her ex is playing on her mind. I really like this girl and at times think that I may be in love with her. What should I do or say to try and get back with her ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2005): First of all, getting involved with someone who is already in love with another is NEVER a good idea. I really think you are in denial here and I'm not sure 'why' you'd want her-especially in light of the fact she still loves her ex bf. Don't shortchange yourself here, dear. I think you do realize you do deserve to find someone who will love you for YOU. She was gracious enough to tell you that she thought "it was unfair to carry things on with you"..that should have been your first clue-she has made her choice! She told you what she felt, accept that and move on, hun. Take care and Good luck.
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