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30-35,
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writes:I put myself in a little troubled situation, and I'm looking for advices of any kind: I told a classmate of mine i liked her exploiting the fact that I gave her a ride home.A couple of things to know: it was a while i wanted to tell her that, but I'm humongously shy (and quite a bit on the nerd side, and also a bit awkward) and never even tried to get into a relationship before, so when the chance to overcome my shyness presented itself, I took it; she got out a suffered love story about 3 months ago, and talking to mutual friends I found out she's a bit messed up on the emotional side (which I apparently hadn't picked up, or better, I had, but I hadn't thought as much);also being terrible blunt as I am, I thought well to stylishly ride away with a whispered "ciao" after telling her that (no I didn't plan on doing that, it just came, and while working well in movies I don't think it works as well IRL);I was made aware, again by common friends, that she was fairly shocked of the fact, which means I was successful in actually hiding my feelings, see the shy part on this (she even insisted I hated her, not sure how jokingly);we still have one more year in school, so I could really use some advice sorting the situation out, one way or the other.Thank you in advance, and sorry for the wall of text.
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reader, N91  +, writes (22 June 2011):
 Simple, tell her that you like her...what you wanted to say came out wrong...easy as that.
Good luck
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