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writes:i told my gf. that i wanted to break up with her because everyone including my family and friends and those of hers disagrees to the relationship we have..she alwys tells me that she cant live without me....and that she will die if ever i leave.....but the more we stay together in this relationship, the more she gets hurt....the more she gets sick....i am responsible for her death?! if ever she will do it?? Reply to this Question
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reader, Reebe  +, writes (29 March 2007):
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Do you actually want to break up with her? Don't do it just because other people want you too!
If how ever you do want to split up with her then she's saying these things because she doesn't want you to leave her. I doubt she would actually go through with it and she is black mailing you to stay with her.
You shouldn't feel guilty about finishing with her because your right the longer you stay together then it will become harder and harder.
Be kind and be gentle with her and try to spare her feelings.
Good Luck!
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reader, Cleo +, writes (29 March 2007):
There seem to be a couple of issues here.
Firstly, why on earth would you break up with someone because your family and friends disagree with the relationship? You have not given details as to why your family and friends disapprove, but unless they have a very good reason for disapproving, maybe you should question why you have broken up with her.
Secondly, you should not let your (ex?) gf emotionally blackmail you. Understand that she is doing it because she is upset but don't fall for it. If (and I think it is pretty unlikely) she were to do something stupid you would not be responsible. She is responsible for her own actions.
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