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writes: Ok.. So I'm talking to this new guy who will go by Josh, and I mean he's really nice and sweet and everything.. But he seems over-mushy (babe you're so cute,I miss you,etc.) And at first I loved the attention, but now it just seems fake and the words have lost their value.I want what me and him have to last but I can't go on like this! Please help! Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey people, thanks for the advice. I ended up just telling him flat out that it wasn't working for me..
And it wasn't for him either, which made me feel so much better, I didn't wanna hurt him.
Thanks again!
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reader, Star_07 +, writes (5 June 2008):
How long have you been dating this guy?
In a new relationship, a lot times there is this kind of talk "I miss you. No, I miss you more. No, I miss you even more!" And at first its cute and you are all in love but then the real stuff comes along and you would like to talk about something serious other than being cutesy.
If he isn't the right guy for you, then move on. If you want this to last, then why do you want him to stop calling you baby, honey, sweety?
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (5 June 2008):
If you are not happy then move on. Why stay in a relationship that makes you unhappy or dissatisfied? Just because he's a nice guy doesn't mean he's the right guy.
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