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writes:I am married and have a great relationship. But I have this fantasy of watching my wife with a bigger guy. How do I talk her into it. We have stories we tell each other over the phone and they involve me watching or taping.she loves them but said she would never really do it how do I get her to be comfortable enough to try. Reply to this Question
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reader, epicureansage  +, writes (20 February 2011):
Your wife's hesitancy about this is a sign you need to LAY OFF. If she's not into doing this "for real", and you prod her into doing it, the results will be DISASTEROUS.
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reader, Aus_fred  +, writes (15 December 2010):
while many guys have this fantasy, have you asked yourself what the consequences could be.
My wife and i had the fantasy of her sleeping with another man and after it being a fantasy for 6 years we let it come true while on holiday, that was 14 years ago and my wife has been sleeping with other men since.
Think about what you really want, i wish our fantasy had stayed just that.
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (15 December 2010):
 Sorry but you are being selfish here - your wife has said that she wont do it so leave it at that - keep the fantasy in your head!
If you try and force your wife because it will get your rocks off seeing her having sex with someone else - can you even imagine the repercussions of this action??
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reader, Aunty BimBim +, writes (15 December 2010):
 You wife has said she doesnt want to do it. If you try and talk you wife into doing something she doesnt want to do it shows a lack of respect.
Maybe your wife isnt interested in having sex elsewhere, maybe your wife believed the wedding promises she made, maybe your wife just simply doesnt want to do it, maybe your wife is more comfortable with sexual fantasies that sexual realities.
Why on earth would you want to watch the woman you are meant to love and respect above all others having sex with another guy, and one with a big donk at that?
And while I am asking question rather than answering them, whats with your login name 'anger j" are you angry because your wife wont have sex with another man?
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