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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Recently me and my boyfriend have been engaging in foreplay. He seems to be really confident with it. Whereas I am not. I want to do things, but I get nervous and can't. (I don't want to be too graphic with details - sorry) He tries to help me and is usually patient but now I think he's getting annoyed with it, as he keeps bringing it up.I tried explaining how I feel to him and the what the problem is but he can't seem to understand it. In fairness I understand it little myself. I've never had a similar problem before. Help?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2010): It's probably your body's way of reminding your brain that you are really very young and maybe this is a bit much too soon? I clam up when I don't feel really secure with someone, maybe this is what is happeneing?
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reader, Sex_counsellor +, writes (19 December 2010):
 The best thing you can do is talk through your feelings with your boyfriend and tell him how much you want to do things but are a little nervous. Your boyfriend should understand and be patient with you. You are likely to be just nervous as you want to ensure that things go right but are lacking in confidence as you have little experience. When you are ready things will happen. Just give it time and experiment a little more until you can build up good trust and you feel comfortable to do things with him. Don't let this situation stress you out as you may find it makes you feel worse.
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