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writes:I went on holiday to Turkey last summer and met the most gorgeous guy. He was working there as one of the entertainment team. I was 12 and he was 20. He was really sweet and we talked a lot in German as I didn't want anyone to be able to butt into our conversations. He made me laugh a lot and we became good friends, and when my cousin tried to tell him that I fancied the pants off of him (not literally) he looked at me smiled and told her that he didn't speak English, when I knew he did.We swapped emails and I talk to him whenever he's on MSN and we've also become friends on Facebook. I've still got feelings for him even after all this time. This is going to sound really stupid, but anyway. I masturbate about three times a week and I always imagine I'm having sex with him.I don't want to lose my friendship with him, so I just couldn't stop our contact, but I want to stop imagining us together in 10 years time with a little baby.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionBy the way Emily, that was last year and in ten years time I'll 23.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionBy the way Emily, that was last year and in ten years time I'll 23.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2008): 22 too young to have a baby?
What kind of ignorant crap is that?
Once you hit 30 and your career is solid, you begin to have less and less a chance of conceiving with each passing year.
So the RIGHT time to have a kid is in your damn 20's when your reproductive capabilities are at their peak efficiency.
Back to the topic at hand.
Who you choose to masturbate over is no issue. If you want to toss off over this guy then you are free to do so.
Care must however, be taken if it is anything more then a phyical attraction. Because if you are emotionally involved or in a friendship, it may be doing more harm then good.
Because you should be experimenting anf forging relationships with those a little closer to your own age. Not pining over a 20=something.
If you meet up in 10 years time and choose to persue a relationsip, then no one will stop you.
But for now try thinking of celebrities when you feel like dipping the old hot sauce.
Flynn 24
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (10 September 2008):
PS. In 10 years time you'll be 22. That is WAY too young to have a baby, that is when you are only just starting out on your career!
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (10 September 2008):
Well if you don't want to cut contact then you just need to get tough with yourself.
You have to physically make effort to stop every time you think about it. Give yourself a slap round the wrist and then make effort to think about something else.
Mind over matter!
If you are bright enough to be able to hold conversations in German enough to get a friendship going, then your brain is big enough to control itself.
Good Luck!! xx
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