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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hello everybody...Ok here's the deal. I'm 18(almost 19) years old and I really like one guy who is 23. He's very sexual attracted to me. But the problem is that I see him very rare and when I see him, he's always with bunch of his friends (drinking beer and talking).The thing is that once we were together after one party, at his friend's house. We tended to sleep there, because we were very drunk. So he started to kiss me and touch me, but I didn't want to sleep with him. I asked him if he has a girl and he said: "you're optimistic". So that probably means that he wants to have a girlfriend or what? And then he went home (he lives close to this friend). The problem is, that everytime I see him, he's so hot and now I want to sleep with him. I have never been attracted to anybody on that way, I had sex with only 2 persons and they were my boyfriends. I see him once a month or less and that is in one bar in my town or maybe on some concert. And tomorrow I'm going to this bar with my friends and then to one concert, so it's highly possible that I would see him somewhere. I have to mention that he's not a kind of guy who had sex with many girls, but I'm quite good looking and I'm quite sure that he fancys me back. He knows that I fancy him , but he never do anything after that and I have no idea why. He doesn't even say hello to me. Why? I really want to sleep with him or maybe get to know him better (however i wouldn't mind if we would have just one night stand). Any tips for tomorrow? By the way, sorry for my bad english but it's my second language. Happy Xmas to everybody!!
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reader, Arianz  +, writes (26 December 2008):
 I am also agree with SIRENA that u should wait for some one TRUE.
but if u feel like desparate then better u ask out him directly but it shouldn't be ur 1st sentense.
Wear something sexy, talk with him closely, then slowly explain ur expectation.
I hoope u will get ur answer.
Best of luck
take care
arianz
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (25 December 2008):
 Hi,
Your English is not bad. It seems quite fluent to me.
You asked for advice, and here goes: in my opinion, you shouldn't sleep with him. I think that sex is something that you should save for true love. I wouldn't judge anyone, but this is my opinion and I stand my ground despite pressure from others.
If you like him then get to know him and hopefully things will work out for you guys, but there's a time and a place for sex.
Merry Christmas :)
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