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30-35,
*omedaysoon
writes:There is this guy i really am interested in. He acts flirty towards me though he says he just wants to be friends. We hang out together cus we have friends in common and go to college together and I want to show him we could have fun together if he gave me the chance.what can i do? please don't tell me i have to get over him and that he doesnt want me, etc.
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reader, somedaysoon +, writes (2 March 2008):
somedaysoon is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for taking time to answer. The thing is... i've asked him out and he said he just wanted to be friends, and is just out of a 5yr long relationship, etc. And i want to be patient or get over it but none is working.and yeah i mean fun as in hanging out and having a laugh :)
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reader, Angelicc  +, writes (2 March 2008):
 Okay i'm not too clear by what you mean by fun, but i'm guessing the clean version.
Why don't you orgnaize a night out somewhere, make sure invite a few friends that you both got in common. The when you invite him make it seem you've gone out of you way. The when the night comes around flirt with a little, show him a little attention. Then just really show him your enjoying the night out, by flirt with others, having a dance and just having a good laugh with everyone.
or
you could just ask him.
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reader, casper07  +, writes (2 March 2008):
I think you should just casually ask him one day what he is doing during the weekend? Whether he says that he has plans or not. Casually suggest "well i think me and you should definetly hang out sometime i think it we would have a good time together".
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