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writes:So I moved 1800 miles away from home to play a sport at a top college. At the begining I was quite lonely, only having my team mates for support, when I met some football players at our athlete-orientation. I found out they lived in the same dorm as I did and we hung out all the time. That was a year 1/2 ago. These guys today are like family to me. Now that I live off campus, they are always over at my house and me at theirs. Eventually I became very, very close to "chad" and told him everything. He was like a brother to me. About a month ago he told me that he actually had developed feelings for me; which took me by complete surprise. I thought about it and decided the feeling was mutual. So we hung out a lot more and things started getting touchy. Eventually we decided it was right to have sex. So we did the deed. I want to talk about it but he just doesnt really want to. It's kind of out of my hands now and I personally just dont know what to do or how to handle this. We were texting the other day and I was asking about things. He said "I think you're trippin and shouldnt worry about it... " idk. Advice?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2008): I think he is confused too and its likely that this was unfortunately just a one-off that you will have to put down to experience. Its a shame but being friends with a guy then sleeping with him is not necessarily a sure way to maintain a good relationship. Try and learn from this and move on. If you can avoid texting him perhaps it will give him the space to consider his actions - however you were both responsible.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (27 November 2008):
 It would seem that your friend got what he really wanted, and now you're just a check on his scorecard. Wish we could suggest otherwise, but if he no longer wants to even talk about things, then such is likely the case.
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