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writes:Hi, for the past year or so I hav been talking to a girl on msn, I met her in a chat room and "clicked" instantly. we're both 17 years old. Last nyt I asked her if she would like to meet up for the first time, but im worried that she might not be the same girl i know from msn.I could tell u everything on every part of her body because of the things we have dun on webcam ;)(u know wot i mean).Am i worried over nothing or am i right to be a bit skeptical over the meet.Also I would like to know if anybody else has done this and what happens on these meets because i don't know what she will expect from me ie. chat, sex, meal etc.Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2007): yes, be bold. be confident, but don't be cocky. it is a turn off. just be yourself. it is important. don't try to be someone that you're not.
if you really want to know what she is expecting from you when you do finally meet in person ... just ask her ahead of time before you meet.
you shouldn't be too worried. why not risk it? you'll never know the outcome of the future for the both of you (good or bad) unless you try. live life. you're young! :)
best wishes!
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reader, Dr. John  +, writes (13 February 2007):
 There can't be too much that she will expect that you won't.
The key is to be yourself and of course be polite.
You have already made it through the toughest part and that is getting to know her.
Usually our biggest mistake is seeing someone first then trying to get to know them, then we may be dissapointed in what we find is the "inner person". You have pretty much done the opposite. Again, just be yourself. Doc.
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