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writes:Sir, I am a 22 year old guy, 18 years old that's right from college life itself, I saw a girl and fell in love with her. Actually I tried to avoid her those days but she was also looking me for fun. Unfortunately I fell in love with her. Yet I didn't tell this to her till the end of our college life. We were in different classes and so I didn't have much contact with her. One day she was talking to her friend(boy) through phone at night. That time I also called her. She asked me why I am disturbing her like that. So I had to tell her.. because I kept her in my mind and I like to marry her. Now after telling that she told me she does not believe me to be her husband and she likes everything to be according to her parents wishes. She is still in my heart. What should I do? Plz help me,
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2008): In college guys and girls do look at each other.Please don't take it to mean anything else.
How did you get her number?A very big feat in India.I have to say that must have taken some good thinking on your part.
Regarding her respecting her parent's wishes,Every country's culture is different.Ours is unique.You know how our society reacts to inter caste,intercultural and inter religion marriages.Also we are brought up not to dishonor our parent's names.
I have known of ten thousand people who have gone against this rule.I have known of friends who have waited patiently for 10 years to convince their parents and then get married.Love is the key.
You cannot force love out of a person.It either comes naturally or it doesn't.When she asked you,"Why are you disturbing me?".Its thousand bulbs flashing to say "I am not interested in you".
Love is a two way street.You cannot be the only one who would like to be her husband.she has to think of you as her husband too.Do not force her.It will make you look like a stalker.You will definitely find some one out there for you.
Remember the lines in the movie Dil Toh Pagal hai.
"Someone somewhere is made for you".I am sure the one who is meant for you will love you back.All the Best.
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