I want to leave my first girlfriend for my 2nd pregnant girlfriend but I fear I have left it too long!

A male age 41-50, *HD156 writes:

I have a home with a Girl I have known for 8years, I have dated her for 3years. I'm unsure if I love this girl or what people say 'in' love with this girl. I can't imagine life without her but i'm just not happy, I have a heavy heart and don't know how to sort it. I have made things much worse, I met another girl but still didn't have the heart to leave the first girl, the 2nd knew about the first and said she would wait. The 2nd called each day and was very loving and I was thrilled with getting to know her. Unfortunatly the 2nd has just from Holiday 5 days ago and has barely spoken to me. Not returning calls or texts and I must say this hurts, incredibly so, i've never felt so sick, not eating, tearful its awful. She says everything is fine but i'm sure it isn't. Oh the final twist to this mess I have created, the 2nd is 2months pregnant. Am I a bad person? Weak? Shallow. In an ideal world I would love to leave my 1st girlfriend, the right way, if there is one and yes i'm aware I havn't done a very good job so far and start something great with the 2nd, although I feel I may have made her wait too long and missed my chance. Many Thanks

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