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writes:i am in a relationship wit a guy since 2 yrs..he proposed me first., in the beginning i used to love him a lot. I still don't know whether he was serious in the beginning or he was just fascinated by me.. After few days of our relationship, he started hugging and smooching.. I didn't deny it as I thought its all common in love. But few days later we started playing sex (just oral sex till date). I didn't cooperate with him in the beginning. But as i was truly committed with him i just agreed. While having oral sex many times he has forced me for intercourse, but i never agreed for it. But every time we meet I used to feel guilty about it. And also i have told him that. But he used to convince me by saying something. But now am really feeling guilt for whatever i have done. And i don't wanna be in this relationship anymore. When i tried to say the same, he didn't agree for break up. He is saying he truly loves me and all. And once i have completely avoided him. But he tried for committing suicide, by consuming mosquito liquid. But i don"t know how true it is? as i couldn't meet him that day?. But day by day i am feeling like i have been bounded by somethings. So i wanna be single again and i really wanna come out of it.. Plz help me out..
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reader, Starlights  +, writes (6 August 2012):
 This is the type of guy who you really dont want to be with. From what you wrote he's controlling and manipulative and tries to hold on to you with threats of suicide.
This isnt love! this is abuse!
You dont need his permission to break up!
just tell him its over, break up, AVOID HIM, ignore his calls,... thats the only way you can get it into his head that your not happy following this kind of abusive life.
I know it sounds very tough; but its the only way trust me.
You shouldn't have to live a life of misery caused by someone else. This is not how love should be.
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