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writes: How can I be more assertive with my boyfriend? We have been dating for two years and whenever we do spend time together he is all over me and it's great. I want to be able to return the favor. He tries to get me in the mood, and I can but then stop because I don't know where to go from there. How can I improve and what are some things I can do to really drive him wild?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI am not worried at all about him being happy. I know he is happy, I see it whenever I see him and if he isn't we work through it.
And yes, he does get turned on when I get the same way. The issue of me feeling that way is not problem... it's what I can do with it when I have those feelings. If you could offer me anymore advice that would be great. If you have been my position, which you probably have, I would love any pointers on how to keep the "turning on" theme going ans what I could possibly do to make it more exciting.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2009): If you can bring yourself to talk to him about this it might help. Are you worried that he is not happy the way things are? It could be that he is okay as it is. I read somewhere that men get turned on by being able to turn a woman on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2009): Use your intelligence. Thinks things through. Learn from the physical world that things proceed from cause to effect.
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