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I want to know how to strike up a friendship with her without looking silly!

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Question - (13 December 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 13 December 2009)
A male United States age 36-40, *reo0420 writes:

Her: funny, cute, is in all the little clubs (NHS, Freshman support, Early childhood development, Key Club, choir, etc, etc) she gives amazing advice (one of the many reasons i like her) shes a senior in high school, and is really well known in the fine arts dep. at our school. not much else to say unless u want this to be a novel. XD

Me: I'll try to do this without sounding concieted... keyword, try...

i'm a junior in high school. I've been told im funny, smart (maybe a few too many times...) crazy, and attractive (people say i look a lot like edward from twilight... but i dissagree.) i, unlike her, am only in the chior. however, like her, I'm well known in the fine arts dep.

Problem: the only way i know how to make an advance would be to follow her advice to a "T". it would take a real idiot not to put 2 and 2 together...

i need to know how to start a real friendship/relationship, and when to make the first move without:

A: looking like a player

B: acting like a jerk

C: without looking stupid (i would like to keep my masculenity XD)

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2009):

Someone needs to let you in on a little secret about girls: You cannot start off as her "friend" and move up to being her BF.

Look up "ladder theory" on the internet.

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