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writes:My girlfriend was pregnant with another guy's baby, way before i met her, but seeing as i loved her i was fine with that, we have been going out for 3 weeks yesterday when she told me she was worried about the baby and wanted a few days break from me. She wont even let me speak to her, i feel like she is trying to permantly break up with me and wont let her help her, how do i get through to her? Reply to this Question
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reader, cd206 +, writes (14 January 2007):
 I think you just have to tell her you're still there for her and hope she knows from that that you still care for her. If you pressure her too much you might push her further away which is the last thing you want to do but she might see it that way. Good luck mate.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionMy biggest concern is I have heard nothing from her for a few days now, and we have had a relationship before and this is how it ended, with her saying she needed space. I really love this girl and I really want to make it happen, but I dont want to seem like im pressurising her into anything. So how do I care for her, while still giving her space?
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reader, cd206 +, writes (14 January 2007):
Give her time. Remember her hormones are all over the place right now. Leave her a message telling her you're here if she needs to talk and to call you if she needs anything. Then the ball is in her court. Hope this helps.
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