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writes:Ok, first off i have been with my girlfriend for almost a year and i am in love with her. One night a while back my girlfriend, her stepsister, and i were at my apartment drinking... Now my girlfriends stepsister is VERY attractive might i ad, sexier than my girlfriend. bad i know! Anyway MY GIRL suggested we have a threesome. At first i was skeptical but quickly became interested, who wouldnt! Anyway we started and i started showing her stepsister more attention, you know... Anyway my girlfriend got jealous and we stopped. none of us have mentioned it since and hung out on a regular basis. The problem i am having is i am attracted to her step sister and would like to have sex with her again without my girlfriend. I love my girlfriend but these sexual urges are real. Should i tell her stepsister the truth or keep it secret. If my girlfriend hadnt ever suggested that, id just see her as just attractive, but now i really want to have sex with her again. her stepsister thinks im attractive and im sure shes hiding the same feelings i can tell by her body language to me. what should i do?
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reader, Jodie Louise Grigg  +, writes (30 July 2009):
Hello, i read your question and to be quite honest it is natural to have sexual fantasies about other women whilst in long term relationship. I know a threesome sounded like a good idea at the time, but you should have put your foot down and said no. You may think you love your girlfriend but reading your question and the way you feel, to me it seems its not love, your just very comfertable with this girl and have strong feelings for her. Before you mess with your own head and the other two girls you need to sit down and carefully think about who you want longterm. If you leave your girlfriend and carry on a sexual relationship with her step sister, there will be major trust issues in the future as the step sister might feel if you done it with her, you will with another women. but on the same note, you cannot stay with your girlfriend if your craving sex with another women. its not fair. you need to consider your own feelings and work out what you really want.
" never leave the one you love for the one you like, as the one you like will leave you for the one they love "
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reader, ceme +, writes (29 July 2009):
If you love her, be faithful to her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2009): what should you do - do the right thing. if you want the stepsis, then end it with your gf. cut the bull , you are not in love with your gf. you are in lust witht the stepsis. you are dangerously causing a rift bet the sisters. you know you will hurt your gf when you start your affair with her sis, so just end thngs.no one here is going to change your mind about having sex with the stepsis. your mind is already made up, so do the right thing and cut off ties with one sister before f*cking the other one.
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reader, Starlights +, writes (26 July 2009):
 if your in love with your galfriend dont do it.
dont give into the lust, becoz lust is nothing and can never replace love and you stand to lose your galfriend.
i think having that 3some has complicated matters and there is always a chance you may fall into bed with her sister.
my advice is think before you act and avoid situations where you will be alone with her.
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reader, Starlights +, writes (26 July 2009):
if your in love with your galfriend dont do it.
dont give into the lust, becoz lust is nothing and can never replace love and you stand to lose your galfriend.
i think having that 3some has complicated matters and there is always a chance you may fall into bed with her sister.
my advice is think before you act and avoid situations where you will be alone with her.
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reader, Hesty +, writes (26 July 2009):
If you really love your girlfriend as much as you say you do then you already know what the answer is.
Concentrate on the relationship you already have and leave the step-sister alone. If you sleep with the step-sister then you'll only hurt your girlfriend and I doubt you want to lose her (because that's what will happen if she ever found out you went behind her back).
Oh and the next time you and your girlfriend want a threesome then make sure it’s with someone more distant to you both than her step-sister!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2009): I would say, go for it. It's her fault for bringing up the 3 some thing. It's not like you suggested it. Besides, you are dating not married which is huge difference. Enjoy what will most likely be the best you have ever had!
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reader, Livelife +, writes (26 July 2009):
If you want her that badly, then break up with your girlfriend and go have sex with her, but don't try blaming your actions or attraction to her stepsister on your girlfriend.
If you love your girlfriend, those sexual urges would be real, yes, but they wouldn't make you do something stupid (such as cheating on her). I don't think any girl wants to think their boyfriend is more sexually attracted to their sister or stepsister than they are to them. Anyway, my advice, pick one and stick with it.
If you love your girlfriend (I imagine for more than just sex) then just ask yourself if you could have a REAL relationship with her stepsister, or just sex. You could be throwing away something real for something temporary. Just be careful. If you need anything else you can always message me or anyone else on here for advice.
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