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41-50,
*liviacrmn
writes:My boyfriend and I have been together almost five years and have two kids. He doesn't think marriage is important and he still talks to all of his exes that aren't married. I feel like there is such a lack of respect for me. Is he afraid of losing his stud muffin status or what? Why are all of his exes so important that he's willing to risk hurting me? He also texts back and forth with them and other women and all of them are not married. Oh, and he just turned 40. What's the deal?
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reader, loulouxox  +, writes (13 October 2008):
 i would say talk to him deeply and put your point across strongly. i wouldnt say pull he plug yet i know marrage means alot to you but is him not wanting to get married worth chucking every thing away. i think you have gone so far within yourself and your relationship i dont think you should throw it away for marrage. every 1 wants to get married at sum point bt not every 1 does and they still stay 2gether. i say luk to the future talk 2 hiim and think about wat you could loss. best of luck
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reader, loulouxox +, writes (13 October 2008):
i know wat u mean. me and my bf havent been together that long but we are trying for a baby. i want to get married to him but he always says i will never get married. in a way i feel like he dosent want to make that commitment but i cant tel him. every time marrage is mentioned he quicky says no and i know he means it. i hope you can get over this and i hope i will soon in the future best of luck!!! xox
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reader, oliviacrmn +, writes (12 October 2008):
oliviacrmn is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI just want to know if there are any other options besides breaking up with him. Is there a way to get him to understand the significance before I pull the plug?
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