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writes: Any tips for someone who wants to fall out of love? How can I fall out of love? I am madly in love with my bf but he doesn't seem to be in love with me and it hurts... Please I need ideas... Reply to this Question
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reader, Secretly In Love +, writes (19 March 2006):
I am in the same situation as you. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for over a year and he doesn't seem to love me as much as I love him. I think you need to talk to him. Trust me, there's nothing more hurtful then miscommunication. Don't assume he doesn't love you, ask him. If he says he does love you, ask him why. Ask him questions about it that he would never expect you to ask because then you don't give him time to think about it and tell you what you want to hear instead of the truth. When people get afraid, they lie, so don't scare him off with too many questions, but enough to know if he really does love you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2006): You can't make yourself fall OUT of love, it just isn't possible. If you have real feelings for somebody and love them, it just dosen't switch off like a tap.When you break up with somebody and still love them, all you need is time and space, this will help you to get over the person you love, and you feel better in the long run.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2006): I would come forward and ask him if he loves you the way you say you love him. If he says he does then you two should have a long realtionship. If he doesn't then you need to leave him before it hurts to badly to leave. Trust me i know it will hurt but you are lucky enough to have someone who at least has loved you unlike me who has never known what its like to be able to love someone. Try to work it out between you two because if you dont try you'll never know what could've been.
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (17 March 2006):
 Make a list of all of his faults and look at why you are with him, were the realtionship is going and were you would like it to go.
Look at why he does not tell you he loves you and think about this, is it really that he does not love you or is it that he just does not say it, or maybe he likes you a lot and this will eventually develop into love.
Remember some people find it hard to say they love someone for a variety of reasons, some will not say it until they are sure they love that person and some people take longer than there partner to fall deeply in love but will have strong feelings that will develope.
Before you throw away your relationship have a long think about all what I have said and if you are still convinced there is no future for your relationship then just finish it, grieve over it and move on.
Falling into love is far easier than falling out of it.
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