I want to enjoy my first cruise instead of stressing to take care of his daughter. What should I say to my boyfriend?

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My boyfriend of 3 years wants to bring me to a vacation on a Caribbean cruise. I was very excited about it. He wanted me to see if I like the Caribbean and we might move there for a few years. It was suppose to be a romantic getaway. My boyfriend has a 8 years old daughter with his ex who lives with the mom right now. I have a good relationship with her, but I always feel I am pressured to take extra good care of his daughter whenever the 3 of us spends time together. There are many things a guy cannot do which all those responsibility lies on me. I spoke to my boyfriend about it, and he said I'm worrying about nothing. What I need is to spend more time with her. He wanted to bring her to the cruise too to make sure she likes it there too. I want to enjoy my first cruise instead of stressing to take care of his daughter. What should I say to my boyfriend? I won't have a problem if we visited Disneyland instead. A cruise to me seems like a bad idea with a kid. Am I being selfish?

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