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36-40,
*ountrygirlWV
writes:Me and my bf have been together for almost two years now and we've has sex plenty of times but it seems that I'm always the one enjoying it better. Don't get me wrong he gets off and says he is when I ask him but he always does all the work. I'm not bad at it when I'm on top but usually we end up switching I just want maybe a new trick or two to give him the chance to relax and get more pleasure I just want to return the favor. Can anyone help me:( Reply to this Question
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reader, lexilou  +, writes (16 June 2008):
 Shave his balls first, or let him do it if he's scared! But dont tell him why (or maybe they are already shaved)
Then using your tongue, hands and mouth, lick, suck and caress his balls and downwards slightly with only the barest of 'accidental' touches to his penis, let your hair cascade over them too if its long. You could tie him up for this too if you want, and use massage oils, squirty cream or ice cubes too. In other words let him lie there and enjoy the attention. Include the penis when you think he cant take anymore. You can soon pick it back up to include you if you want or just go the whole way and sit on top of him when you think hes near bursting point. Drive him wild! x
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (16 June 2008):
Aww, you're nice.
Well there are tonnes of things you could do....
Dressing up in a little outfit? telling him how great he is while you are doing things with him? Get the squirty cream out and play games?
Bare in mind that he might be having the time of his life but just be quiet about it. Not all guys scream and shout as much as we girls like to.
Ask him what he'd like to try next and find out if there are any suggestions he has.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (16 June 2008):
 Hi there,
I wouldnt worry too much. At your age you still have your L plates in the experience side and great sex I believe doesnt really kick in till your over 30! So something to really look forward to huh?
We guys are quite keen on verbal compliments while doing the deed , so give him some big booster tips while you are having sex.
Also it might be worth getting an educational sex video to see what the pros do ( not prostitues but those annoyingly handsome and beautiful couples who participate in these things). People react differently , one guy may want the girl on top all the time others dont want her on top at all.
So the best thing is to experiment. One good position guys like is when you are in the missionary position close your legs while he is inside you , that gives more friction on his penis and the double bonus is it rubs against your clitoris as its going in.. as Borat would say "very nice"
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