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writes:i'm 16 and i need help i cant seem to stop thinking of this girl. she is a close friend and she dosent know how i feel. i dont know if a relationship would work because were very different people and i dont know if i can keep it a secret please what should i do Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2005): Get to know her well, and after a while, take the plungge and ask her out! If she says yes then great, if not just shrug it off and keep it cool.
If you start going out, don't fret, everybody has something in common. Even if you don't, you could still talk about each others lifestyle, it could be really interesting talking to someone so different. For instance, ask her what she likes, she could start you in new hobbies,
then you'd have something in common!
If she says no, then you'll probably feel betrayed and let down, but don't worry, if she turns you down, you weren't meant for each other and find someone else who is better for you. If you really love this girl, then it will take time to get over her, don't worry, you will!
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