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I want to cheat again, but I know it's wrong--help!

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Question - (20 June 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 20 June 2007)
A female United States age 41-50, *aco salad is yummy writes:

I'm having trouble with the relationship between my boyfriend and I. We've been together for a year and a half now and have lived together for a year. For the past 10 months I felt like he was treating me more like a roommate them a girlfriend. Recently I cheated on him with one of my guy friends.

My boyfriend and I are working it out and things seem to be doing well. But last night the guy I cheated on my boyfriend with called me. He left a voicemail inviting me to dinner on Friday. Part of me wanted to sneak behind my boyfriends back and have dinner with this guy. But in my heart I know it's wrong and the progress my boyfriend and I have made so far would be gone. I need to stay away from my guy friend but I'm having a very hard time doing that. Any advice?

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A male reader, DV1 United States +, writes (20 June 2007):

DV1 agony auntHave a talk with the other guy, and let him know that you're taken. Tell him that you made a mistake, and don't intend on repeating it, because you intend on repairing your relationship. If you still feel tempted, then you should let your current boyfriend find someoene else.

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