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female
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26-29,
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writes: ok i dont really know how to start this of but plz read it and i will apreciate all answers. i know its usualy about looks at my age so whats the point waiting for a guy to like me purely for my personality.. coz tht would take a while so at my age i have to experiment now. so this guy recently called me hot (on facebook btw0and he is what i call quite fit! im not the most hot girl but i would im pretty ( not ina vein way tho) and i asked him if he ment it the next day and he said yeah so is he telling the truth?? and if so do you think he is just being all flirty or he is chatting me up to ask me out in the end?? i really need your help coz being my age i get even bigger feelings about this kinda thing and so i could chat him up a bit bac.. while not lookin like a dick! pretty pleasse and +thankyouuu in advance xx
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reader, incendia1990 +, writes (11 February 2011):
Hey, I have to say, yeah it'll look like a lot of guys your age are about looks only but maybe your not looking in the right place. As far as that guy goes, he may just be flirting. When someone uses the word 'hot' to describe someone, they are only about looks, not personality. My advice is 1) forget that guy 2) realize that you are beautiful and that beauty on the inside counts more (but you obviously know that part :) ) and 3) hold out for someone truly worth it, not a player. Take a while to get to know someone before dating him, that way, everything is more meaningful and he'll respect you as a person and actually care about your heart instead of toying with it. :)
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