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I want to break up with him, but it hurts so bad!

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Question - (28 January 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 28 January 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

me and my boyfriend have been together over a year. he is pretty much the best thing that has ever happened to me except he hurts me so much. I find myself crying over him ATLEAST once a week. However, i always find it in myself to forgive and forget and then act like nothing ever went wrong. Today i came over and he told me that i could stay as long as i like and that it didnt matter. Then about a half hour later he said "well you should get going" so i called my mom to come pick me up and she was like.. but you just got there? and i said.. well i know but i have to leave. I felt so humiliated. He doesnt even want me around. Yet he tells me he never wants to lose me and he loves me and all this other stuff. So i decided to take a stand and break up with him but now it hurts so bad. What do i do? :(

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A female reader, Pincessk17 United Kingdom +, writes (28 January 2009):

Aww hun sorry to hear it.

Its very hard when youve been with someone for so long, i was with my boyfriend for 7months and he treated me bad towards the end, so we went on a break and never got back together. Then he got with my friend and i found out when i was with him he had been txting her saying he wanted her not me, it hurts but promise me hun if youve broke up and you dont want him back then dont, it will get better in time, i was really down for months on end and never wanted to do anything then i just forgot and thought theres no point in hanging over a guy

move on hun !

xx

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