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writes:Dear cupidI'm 16, i lost my virginity when i was 13, but anyway, im 16 now and i have a boyfriend and i went to a party and i met this guy who i didn't realize is my boyfriends 2nd cousin, i had sex with him at my boyfriends house and he caught us and i want to be with my boyfriend and he's texted me a few times but how can i prove to him how sorry i am? i love him with all my heart and i swear on my little brothers life i would change what happend. Im really and truly sorry!
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reader, The old Man?  +, writes (28 January 2009):
 You say you swear on your little brothers life, how well do you like your little brother? How about YOUR own life ?
Girl, you did it good! In his own house, with his cousin! That's about as low as you could have gone!
Maybe he'll forgive you, maybe he wont, but all I can say is, I can't say that I'd blame him if he doesn't.
If he does take you back, don't take it as though it's ok to do this sort of thing. Broken trust is a very hard thing to rebuild!
Is this the first time you've done something like this, or just the first time caught. Either way, I hope it's a lesson that stays with you for the rest of your life!
Joe~
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (28 January 2009):
I don't think you can get him to forgive you.
It wasn't just a drunk snog, you went up stairs and had full sex. There are severally stages to go through, you could have stopped at any time.
You've told him you want to be with him, now you just have to back off and let him decide whether he can ever forgive you.
Good Luck!! xx
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