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I want to break up, but I can't afford to pay the bills alone!

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Question - (18 September 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 19 September 2009)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi thanks for reading!

I can't figure out for the life of me what I can do to resolve this situation. I am living with my boyfriend and we have been togther for a while, but it is not so great anymore, and I am not happy. At first I thought I was just worrying, but every day I think about how I wish that my life was different like that I was single or with someone else and I am attracted to at least two other guys right now, one of which I have known for years and I think he likes me too, but that is another story.

The problem is that I live with my boyfriend and we have an apartment leased for 1 year which started in May which is in my name and if we break up I can't afford to pay the bills here by myself. I know someone else who I can move in with, but I don't know how to leave the apartment without paying a lot of money or having my credit messed up, so that is one of the main reasons why I am scared to break up. Does anyone have any advice?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2009):

IF you are not happy just break i was there and not far , i stayed with him in his place after break up cuz i thought that i would have better quality life in his apartment ? and I would save some money

but i found out that the life was just sucks, so I moved out ,living in small room in sharing house and I feel happier and more satisfied and free again

so ,wether move on , or let him move , you can rent a room in your place it can help

DON’T Don’t stay with him if you are not happy it would kill you slowly and you would hate the life and hate the love and dont want to be in love anymore

Good luck

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A female reader, Amy1090 United Kingdom +, writes (18 September 2009):

Contact the person you are renting this place from and see what they can do.

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