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male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:ok so i have been dating this girl since a year and i wana get rid of her now because of some reason and i dont think this relationship can go ahead. our relationship faced many ups and downs in this year and has got so strongly rooted that even i dont think its gonna be so easy staying away from her.she is deeply and emotionaly so attachted that she has literally become crazy about me and appears threatening on the mere thought of me going away from her. she is kinda low esteemed girl and her life revolves around me.At the age of 17, she has started talking about our children and i have been feeding her dreams for her sake. i know i have made a mistake friends,but this is not mean trust me! even i care for her and she has a special place in my heart.i will try my level best to help her move on and will always be there to support her. but as its the question of my life, i don t think she was the girl i was looking for.please advise me on this issue. i have badly messed up my life. luckily,we stil have not had sex. now a days she has been making out in me saying i am not excited about our affair and its true ! i wanna run away before she finds herself in 'get him or die' situation!what can be the consequences and how to overcome them ? how am i supposed to ease the addiction? i know its gonna be a slow process.....please guide me people SOS ~!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2009): unfortuneately, there's no easy way of doing it, you've just got to tell her that its over!!!
I'm sure you will do it in the kindest of ways.
It may take her a while to get over you, so be understanding!
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2009): The truth is , your right ! l was once in your girls situation , l was so emotionally detacted , l just could not see the wood for the trees , there is no easy way to do this , but you have to bear this out , at the end of the day you will be being cruel to be kind , plus she will get over you in the end and meet someone who wants the same thing that she does , as l have . Good luck to you both .
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