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I want to be with him so bad but hes not sure about his sexuality!!

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Question - (23 February 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 24 February 2007)
A male United States age 30-35, *boy1022 writes:

im new to this so here it goes...well im gay and i just got out of a very bad relationship with a bi guy.

Ok simple right? Well im ready for a real relationship with anyone that will love me because i have never felt that before.. i do have a friend that came over to my house a little while back well we talked about a lot of things like well specifics dont matter but the one thing that really turned me to him was the fact that he said he is sick of girls.

Well i took this as a clue to make a move on him witch is really not like me. So i kissed him then he said i cant cheat, then that proved to me that he was loyal. Before he left we talked somemore and when he got up to leave i said," please dont go" well i then got up and gave him a hug for what it felt like forever. He then said if i dont leave now i wont go, then later on that week we talked as if nothing had ever happend and till this day i still talk to him at school we are great friends.

Later on we were headed to the moives and we got to talking agian and he said he feels low by taking others v card so to say. So i told him if we ever got into a relationship he wont take it i would give it to him willfully. what should i do i want to be with him so bad but hes not sure if hes gay or bi because he has a girl. help!!!!!!!!!!!

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A male reader, si101 United Kingdom +, writes (24 February 2007):

si101 agony auntyour still young no one really knows what there sexuality is most lads one time or another think that they might be this or that just try being friends until he has made up his mind on what he wants to do eny way it sounds like you two are really good friends you can always have that :-)

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A female reader, thels1 Ireland +, writes (23 February 2007):

what you need to do is givw him time to sort out his head all you have to do is tell him you will be there for him no matter what the desion is i know its hard especially if you really like this guy but he needs to figure this out for him self

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