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*onfused0223
writes:I have been split up from my daughter's father for 2 and 1/2 years. I just broke up with the first guy I dated since, because he was to clingy. Now an ex-boyfriend has come back around. He is a marine stationed in SC. Two nights ago he tryed to get me me to marry him for like 15 mins. THe next day he swore he was joking, then today for the first time EVER he said I love you. I don't know what to do. Because I really do want to try and be with him one day and I think about him all day and can't wait to talk to him every night. I am even considering going down to SC to see him. I need some help on how to correctly deal with this. WHat would you do girls and guys what does this mean? P.S. We aren't "together"
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reader, Valyda  +, writes (10 March 2009):
Think about that child, don't make a mistake that will affect you baby. If the man loves you he will show it with actions. Don"t marry him, don't even think about it until you have dated and he is a good man and good to your child.
AND make sure he respects you, otherwise forget it.
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reader, confused0223 +, writes (10 March 2009):
confused0223 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionokay this wasn't very clear I guess, then one I want to marry, isn't her father. And we haven't esablished it yet because I am soo unsure
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reader, PeterPan +, writes (10 March 2009):
 The first piece of advise that comes to mind is, no matter what, don't marry him without reestablishing that boyfriend/girlfriend period together... do you know what I mean? Just because he is the father of your child doesn't give him the right to be a permanent part of your life. Work your way into again by establishing (reestablishing) the intimacy.
I hope that helps some...
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reader, wannabeme +, writes (10 March 2009):
Hes playing with your feelings.., be careful... Dnt feel like you need to be in a relationship for your kid.... This guy is mentally unstable so be careful
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