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writes:Hello, I am 21, currently back in a relationship with my ex, we dated previously for 5 years and took a 5 month break. Our past relationship was not healthy towards the end so she broke up with me. She recently told me she wants to try again and I agreed to it because I do really care for her. However one of the main issues of our relationship was intimacy. I didnt expect a lot or pester her but it's all we fought about and when I would bring it up or try to spark something she would get very upset. The reason I bring this up is because once again there is no desire for her again. I dont know what to do, she is always stressed out about school or thinking of something that causues stress. I want to be with her but I also want to feel wanted. No compliments or noticing anything I do to try to turn her on. What should I do?
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reader, Roboaxe +, writes (17 November 2009):
 Dude, move on.
You dated her for FIVE years and nothing happened. Do you seriously want to stick around for another five and hope that one day she will suddenly want you really badly? She already broke up with you once, do you want to wait for her to break up with you again?
I am guessing no. She won't suddenly change. You had your time together and that's done. You have your whole life ahead of you, enjoy it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2009): this girl is clearly not the one for you, im my opinion you should go out have some fun and meet a girl who is more in tune with yourself.
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