A
age
,
*
writes: I'm married and so is she. She started to flirt around and she gave me green signal after she asked me for some money. I visited her house and we made out. Since then I had to go undercover to her house to make out.Since that has passed over six months she is not seeing me. Not calling me. But in the middle she asked for some more money. complaining that her hubby who had already thrashed her will thrash her again. so I gave it her. I want her but she is not giving in.What Can I do to win her heart? How can I make her understand that money is not the matter but I want her to be with me at least once a month for sex?
View related questions:
flirt, money Reply to this Question Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2011): Thanks for the update OP. But what does it really mean?
Is she still with her hb?
Are u with your wife as well?
Are u still having sex with the other woman?
Are u still giving her money in exchange of sex?
I note that u are in your 40s- so u do have grown up kids. How do they feature in this mess?
LoveGirl
A
reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for all the help ..... it is better now as discussed ... I was frustrated ... now I am at ease ...
...............................
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2011): it shows clearly she is very very in need of money and she is not bothered about love, your side you are in need of her beauty & sex. but if you don't mind I suggest you one thing, it is good to be good with your wife, think for a moment, if someone does the same thing with your wife how do you take it.
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell It is already tried and tested, she is already there and will always be,,,,,
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYes I know that, but the sex part is not the only thing I want. It is her closeness that I need. I want to make her feel wanted. She has been SMSing me that she'll do anything if I give her the money. But as soon as she gets it she just disappears. Is she playing with me I can't keep a private eye to give me her details.
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYes I know that, but the sex part is not the only thing I want. It is her closeness that I need. I want to make her feel wanted. She has been SMSing me that she'll do anything if I give her the money. But as soon as she gets it she just disappears. Is she playing with me I can't keep a private eye to give me her details.
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYes I know that, but the sex part is not the only thing I want. It is her closeness that I need. I want to make her feel wanted. She has been SMSing me that she'll do anything if I give her the money. But as soon as she gets it she just disappears. Is she playing with me I can't keep a private eye to give me her details.
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2011): "What Can I do to win her heart? How can I make her understand that money is not the matter but I want her to be with me at least once a month for sex?"
At least be honest with yourself. You are not interested in her heart. You are interest in sex with her.
If you were interested in her heart, you would be concerned about the fact that she is married, her husband is obviously abusing her, and she is using you for money because she knows you will give it to her...
A prostitute would be more reliable.
...............................
A
female
reader, amandab +, writes (6 February 2011):
how about trying to make it work with your wife!
...............................
|